Teaching dance is a gift afforded to us. It is a special talent and we are the lucky ones to get to do what we do each day. It does, however, come with its share of responsibilities. Teaching young dancers technique and performance just simply isn’t enough. The following five items are important lessons that should be taught to and expected from your dancers starting from the youngest, tiny beginners to your oldest, most advanced pre-professionals. This also holds true for recreational students. These values set a precedent, teach etiquette, decorum, respect for the studio, art form, and implement professionalism, courtesy, and respect for oneself.
#1 SET A DRESS CODE & ADHERE TO IT CONSISTENTLY:
Dancers should have a dress code, period. Whether they are recreational or on a more advanced track, it is essential. Having dancers come into class with jean jackets, hooded sweatshirts, jeans, etc. for a lyrical class is just not OK. Remember, whether they become dancers or not is not important- recognizing there is a code and etiquette and respecting what they are doing is. If they played soccer or baseball they’d be in a uniform, dance shouldn’t be any different. Set it as expectation, not an option.
#2 DANCERS SHOULD ALWAYS THANK TEACHERS FOR CLASS:
Yes! After every single class. Dancers should know they are to individually walk up to the teacher and thank them at the end of class. That is respectful and it should be the standard and the culture. I’m not talking running up to them and thanking them quick and running off. I’m talking, making eye contact, thanking them and even throwing in a curtsy if you’re really feeling proper etiquette.
#3 DANCERS SHOULD ALWAYS THANK TEACHERS FOR CORRECTIONS:
Corrections, feedback and critique are gifts. Individual attention shouldn’t be seen as an attack or being picked on but instead looked at with appreciation that a teacher noticed them and wanted to individually help them to progress. With that way of looking at it, dancers should always say, “thank you,” after receiving a note.
#4 LEAVE BAD ATTITUDES OUTSIDE:
Everyone has a bad day. Everyone gets in a bad mood. We’re human. What’s not OK is a consistent poor attitude that affects the energy of the rest of the dancers on a regular basis. Setting an open-door policy for dancers to come in and discuss any problems, issues, concerns, etc. should always be offered. However, coming in with eye rolling, side eyes, talking under one’s breath, giving notes to other dancers, bullying other dancers because of seniority, talent level, etc. should be set as a zero-tolerance policy. While it is wonderful for our dancers to be confident, value their worth and minds and respect themselves, there is still a rule to respect your elders and others and knowing one’s place in the grand scheme of studio culture. You are not their friend, you are their teacher, their mentor and their studio director. You should be expecting to be treated as such and they should be treating their peers the same way as well. You should be a community growing together.
#5 NOTHING IS OWED TO YOU: In today’s climate, everything is about instant gratification. The immediate. The now. Everyone should advance at the same time. Everyone should get a solo. Everyone should get a trophy. Unfortunately, that is not realistic in the real world. We are setting our dancers up for failure and disappointment by not providing them with the coping skills they need to survive as an adult. These lessons should be taught with tact, love and compassion but they need to be taught. Reinforcing the idea of hard work, paying one’s dues, be committed, patient, dedicated and focused is a not a bad thing. It’s not being too tough on them, it’s not being mean, it is teaching preparation and having students understand nothing in this real world is owed to you. You do the work and you reap the rewards. Failure is part of success.
Everyone develops at their own pace. While that may be a hard lesson for young dances to learn at times, it will lessen the blow when they become adults. You are their guide, so guide them through with love and explanation so that they understand. While they may not understand in that exact moment, they will look back one day and thank you for “teaching,” them these important life lessons.
I just love this quote by the great Zig Zilar…
“It’s not your aptitude that determines your altitude, it’s your attitude!”
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